Thank you so much for your response. I too, believe we choose the experiences we encounter here. I am currently reading “The Secret” and the new Eckhart Tolle book (can’t think of the name at this moment.) It really does seem so simple and I wholeheartedly believe our thoughts and attitudes control our everything. I will be praying for my sister and I do believe she can beat this if she really, really believes she can beat it. I don’t think my parents, who died 19 and 20 year ago or my sister Mary (who died of lung cancer in 2000) are ready for my other sister yet! We need her here! Thank you again for your time and response!