Vicki Monroe Frequently Asked Questions
What is a Psychic Medium?
A Psychic Medium can be one or the other, and for many both. Many have their own definitions for what this means. For me personally it's a way for
my mind to open to a vast space where I am able to hear, see and watch
future events, past experiences, and give aid and guidance from the other
side to the client I am speaking with. I use this as a tool in my work. It
can be reprogrammed into anyone, as we are all born with the knowledge. As
time passes, the physical body can become tainted, or polluted by the
exterior influences causing the human being to become more in charge, rather
than keeping a balance between that invaluable gut feeling, which is spirit
trying to aid you. My words for anyone who is feeling that pull from both
sides, "When in doubt, say no!" That doesn't mean forever, it may just
mean, not yet."
What is the difference between Psychic Cold Case Investigation and Psychic Investigation?

What is a Psychic Cold Case Investigation?
“Psychic Cold Case Investigation”, is usually associated with law
enforcement investigations in which the body of a victim has been found or
is missing and presumed dead. “Cold Cases” are cases that have been open for
an extended period of time with no definitive leads from traditional CSI.
Law enforcement and families contact psychic cold case investigators to try
to produces leads in these cases. “Psychic Cold Case Investigation” is
conducted by contacting the victim on the other-side. This contact can help
to produce leads in finding necessary evidence, crime scene or bodies.
Psychic Criminal Cold Case Investigation can also provide an opportunity for
a family to find closure with a tragic event.
What is a Psychic Investigation?
A Psychic Investigation is similar to a Psychic Cold Case Investigation.
However, the person that is being searched for can still be living (usually
in Psychic Cold Case Investigation the victim is presumed dead). Psychic
Investigation is performed by a psychic medium retracing every step of the
missing person using the guides that surround the missing person to help
locate the person or provide insight to the situation. Psychic investigation
is a service that can be provided by skilled psychic mediums to help locate
runaways, missing persons and to shed light in areas were traditional
investigation has fallen short. The psychic medium will perform this service
by using their guides and the guides of the person(s) involved in the
situation. Psychic Investigation can also be used to determine if a missing
or abducted person is still alive.
How do you know if a psychic medium is legitimate?
The real deal is not going to ask you questions. When inquiring about a
Psychic/Medium never tell the person you are speaking to a single thing
about what you are searching for. More simply put, don't give them anything
they can use. People maybe surprised how vulnerable they are when seeking a
person to help them with their life, hearing from a lost loved one, pet,
etc....the voice is and pardon the pun...."A dead giveaway!" Also, if they ask for photo's of people, and how they are related to you, your credit card
number, address, birth date, and day you were born, etc.....my advice would
be to hang up. They can access so much information from just a simple phone
number. When I book an appointment I ask for only a first name, date and
time for our session, and a cell phone. Nothing that is traceable. My
biggest suggestion, listen to your gut. "When in doubt, say no!"
In my experience, God is not one being, but many facets of creators and beings of such power and energy that to say it is a one all empowered being
is slighting. I really believe as I studied theology in earning my
doctorate, that "God" is many things to many people. But the one thing it's
not, is judgmental, damning, cursing, or cruel. These are religious words
brought about through time and the ages. Personally I believe the Native
Americans, and Nomad such people had it right. I envision a Mother and a
Father, we are apart of them, of the grander scheme of things. And in each
life we choose, we search for new experiences, lessons, and positive karma.
The God figure has nothing to do with our choices. That is a gift and a
test for us. We choose the life we live, how we deal with it, that's up to
us.
Heaven is but a mere doorway, not above, or below, but out ...a world
just beyond the average eye. Yet in times of most sadness, or joy it's the
norm for us to look to the sky. It would only seem true, as the Universe is
so vast, and wide, that a place called heaven must be there somewhere. But
in reality it's closer than we think, like a sheer curtain that blows in the
summer air, one walks through it, and home awaits. Heaven is home....this...is work.
Do you have to use a psychic medium to talk to your loved ones who have
passed?
No I am fortunate enough not to have to ask another medium to speak to my loved ones. And like the rest of us, I don't always like or agree with
what they have to say.....but I also know enough to listen. They are our
guides in aiding us in living this particular chapter in the novel of our
lives. It would be careless for us not to listen.
I would love to tell you ....absolutely, but
because they do see us daily, and whenever we think or speak their name are
here for us. As they put it, "What's to miss?" I mean they couldn't be
with us all the time when they had bodies, and face it, some people who
weren't so pleasant you wouldn't want around. But when the body passes, it
leaves the negative debris behind. The soul is incapable of cruelty, but the physical is. Souls that cross, love more than they could remember in
the body, the power of it is so overwhelming, and yet so natural. We don't
lose anyone. It's a peaceful transition, and one that upon each persons
time, welcomed.
Can you contact a specific relative?A certain relative?
Only if they choose to be here. And in my case
when reading a client, the person that is most wanted, without my knowledge
does show up. But not always. Sometimes there is a period of learning
going on with the one left behind, that was unfinished, and they have this
time to re-think it. To see what was, is now a time of renewed life. A
time to grow, and begin again. And in time the soul that is wanted, will
show up.
How do I know if a passed loved one is trying to contact me?
Signs of loved ones are everywhere. From a simple flower falling just as
your eyes catch it, this petal being one that their loved one cherished. To
a cloud formation in the sky. A voice, whisper, scents of perfume, cologne,
pipe and cigar smoke. Some have seen birds that have never been seen
before, and others fine pennies where they didn't have them. Just a sense
of feeling that they are around is all you need. If you feel it, trust in
them and in you, that they are right there where you need them to be.
If this is a God given gift why do you charge for it?
God given ? I'm not always sure it's a god thing, or just a part of my
lives that has been a continuation that in spirit I have allowed to be
strong, and not turned my back on it. As I said we are born with this. All
of us. But most never continue to develop it, and are void of it by age
6-7. As in anything we do in this world, "Money IS an issue." And I have
worked in many fields. But have always been steered right back to this. I
really had to come to the conclusion that as my job in life, being a person
to bring a sense of peace, and calm, knowing, and understanding was a very
unique and wonderful gift to give others. And just like other jobs, we
offer a service. I had to recognize that I was providing a service, and in
that, it was only fair that if this was my job, then I would be compensated.
What is a Spiritual Healer?
A spiritual healer...that's a tough one for me. I use my education in
Natural Medicines and my seeing of spirit to help heal people. Diagnose
problems, etc ....I think there are many different modalities of spiritual
healing. Meditation is a form for me. Acupuncture, can be a form, anytime
the spirit becomes more engaged, and revived through whatever modality you
choose and you become healthier and wiser, more one with the world around
you, and above you through the help of someone else, or by your own hand,
healing spirit is something we all can do.
Do mediums belong to a religion?
Mediums belonging to a religion? Not being a religious person, per
say .....I don't know. I have since a very, very young age, wondered why
some people would be so mean and hurtful during the week, but after church
they would say, they had been forgiven. I know I would say to myself, who
forgave you? The God person, they refer to? Or shouldn't you be asking the
person you are hurting to forgive. Religion to me is a story with many
different endings, and beginnings. It's a story, one that has messages that
are valuable, and some just silly! I don't hold the bible or religion to be
the way we are suppose to live, rather we are spiritual beings who chose to
experience a human existence, and those that have left this world are close
by to aid us. If we are willing to listen. I guess that in a question
I've never been able to wrap around.
Can you tell me my future?
Tell your future? From what I understand, and this comes from my
guides and many others, the future of your life, infract all of it, was
written by you and every single soul you come across be it briefly, in great
lengths of time, or a now distant friendship, have you in theirs. Whether
to clear karma, create new and better karma, face a challenge, or try and
just live life in the manner that you feel comfortable, once the soul enters
a body you are battling the elements. The path is written, but.....free
will street, it can be a great challenge when we listen to our brains,
rather than our minds. Your future can change to a degree, but for the most
part it stays true, for the beginning, middle and the end. I can't
personally tell you your future, and I don't believe that people should tell
others they can see their future. I have seen people frightened senseless
out of some person on a boardwalk telling them they were going to die in 2
years.
That's awful! Even if you have the ability to see into someone's future,
why would you want to inflict fear into them? It's not up to us in this
area. We die when we are suppose to...but while alive, do what we can, when
we can, and live happily.
I'm really not that familiar with aura's, I have seen photo's of people
in before and after picas, and they are incredible? But...from what I do
understand it is the energy that surrounds us, a very telling sign of mood,
each color representing where we are at this point. I'm not sure what all
the different colors mean. I only know that I was told several times a gold
light surrounds me, and at other times a purplish silver. I hope that's a
good thing!
Is there any reference to this subject in the Bible?
Is there any reference in the bible ....I've never read it, when I
tried it felt very sad and dark to me. I could never get past that whole
Adam gave up a rib for Eve, last time I checked we all have the same number
of ribs. So that kind of blew that for me. And it was sad and frightening,
and it went against everything I saw and knew and heard. The only thing I
heard once and I felt it true was when Christ said...."I've walked amongst
you before, but you didn't know me. I instantly took that as a
reincarnation example.
What is a reading with you like?
A reading with me really is just relaxing, and I hope in the end an
enjoyable time where old times are remembered, and laughter is shared as
well as a sense of clearing up old issues that have been weighing us down.
That loved ones can ease their families minds. And to know they are with
them, giving validations such as names of friends, new children just born,
places, objects, anything that will trigger for the client a knowing that
they are literally conversing with their friends and family from the other
side.
My psychic abilities surface when I least want them to, can I gain more control?
As to gaining control over your talent, becoming better at it, and
finding a tool to help you see your guides who can be anyone, from a past
life friend, to a grandmother just passed. We have a variety, and each has
a position in the field. They call it the council, and for whatever
circumstance we are going through you have lead council changed. The reason
for that is at one time, in the human world they too had to deal with the
new situation we are facing. So who better to help us than them. The
others are still there, as co- councils. Giving opinions, and sharing the
duties. But the best tool that I know to aid us in our own personal
development, or even more, taking back what we lost, is through meditation.
I prefer guided, simply because I like to be told where I am, thus
envisioning a place, a sound, and scent. Some can meditate very well, with
just a sound. The sounds of the sea are very soothing to me. I find that a
day near the shore is more relaxing for me, than a day at a spa. The
sounds, smells, breeze, and water, to me are working in perfect harmony
together, and I feel more alive there than anywhere else. And with each
person a different sound, scent, place, is for them. So find a meditation
and listen first. If you feel a sleepy dream feeling at the start, that is
the one for you!
When did you discover your ability?
When I was three years old. You can read the story of how I discovered it in my first book, Understanding Spirit, Understanding Yourself. I am proud of that book, and was helped by many to make its' publication happen. My co-author was very integral in this process. I am now writing my third book which will be available soon.
No. Hell is another word for personal pain. We all have the ability to make life a success and learn from all that we do, or we allow the earthly hardships that all face to over take us. That in itself is called hell. We can all become victim to this. This is another thing I teach. Learn to be your own personal trainer of the highest spiritual level. You are a spirit inhabiting human form, not a human being. And, in knowing that, you are more inclined to listen to your own inner voice.
Is there such a thing as a soul mate? Everyone seems to want to find one.
Yes there is, but not on earth. There are spiritual beings that we fall in love with and admire, who teach us and can have a great influence over us.
Some we share out lives with, others we see briefly that impact us greatly, and still others we can call friends for life. But these are not soul mates. They are spirits of past lives that we are bonded to. Our soul mate has never been on the earth plane. They are what we call our "Split Apart", at the time of soul creation we separated from each other, one half being in the spirit world forever watching and learning from us, and the rest of us that chose life and it's challenges. Our soul mates are the highest form of guides to us. They are the truest form of love.
Do you see ghosts all the time?
First of all, they hate that word! They refer to themselves as spiritual beings. But yes, I see them all the time. Airports are a killer for me, as are malls, large buildings with many people of any kind aren't my idea of . I love the serenity of the wide open spaces, and the ability to see even for a moment the beauty of what life offers. Even though I know what I know. I don't know it all, and I am reminded constantly about that. I have learned to live among them, but I am now able to turn down the volume and the picture (so to speak).
Do all souls go to heaven?
Yes they do. This was always hard for me to say. Many don't understand that. That spirits that do the worst types of things can actually have an after life. Yes they do, but not in the same respect that a good person would have. A soul no matter what they have done will cross, they will review their lives. Yet they must see this life and feel everything they ever inflicted upon anyone. Can you imagine some of the most hateful crimes against humanity and the souls that were apart of that? They will remain forever in heaven, on a different level than the rest of us, never allowed to return to correct their mistakes. I would call this a form of hell. It is not because they are not allowed to change, but the pain they feel is so overwhelming, they choose never to return.
So is heaven all pearly gates, golden streets and St. Peter?
If you want it to be. Heaven is to each person what they choose. After reviewing your life, you are asked to decide what your heaven will be, close your eyes and when you open them, you are there. I have chosen a small island in the middle of a beautiful sea of green. White sandy beach, and a warm breeze all the time. I will reflect there on how I can do better in my next life, and I can always see my loved ones that are still in the living. We travel through thought, and can be anywhere we need to be just by thinking of it. What a reward it is!
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